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Its Friday ! time to loose your grips on reality if you haven't already. Usually I'm looking for a good time somewhere where the women are above average and the Violence is at a minimal drinking and smoking my way to a weekend. (R.I.P Katie Fisi) 3 day weekend for us here at The ShaK so i cant wait to enjoy somethings. Murs Will appear tonight at UC Berkeley followed by Mos Def at the SF roundhouse this upcoming Saturday. Plenty of things to get into, If you have word from Capadonna please forward emails to In2earsco@gmail.com
Have you ever witnessed a women getting hit ? what do you think about it and what do you do at that time ? its one of those things no one says after its done it kinda just goes unnoticed. On top of that you know what i mean what do you you say to the woman ? what if she deserved it ? there is so many questions that comes to my mind about Parachutes is what i call them. Things that happen in front of you to make life seem real. Like witnessing a murder or in this situation seeing a woman get hit. Sure you wanna step up and be captain save me (or some don't) but then that puts you in the middle of a loop that trust me you don't want to be in the middle of. When we were kids the worst kids in class were always the kid who watched his mother get whooped on the daily. same for some of those smarter students. It definitely does something to your mind. I must of saw this shit today and i was like damn i forgot my whole damn thought process. cool thing i went back into my mode which is usually away from reality. Its best just not to get in anyone's business and if things go too far call the authorities and stay away from it. 
Ever tried something personal after a trauma situation ? relationships differ when these things happen. hey don't set yourself up to be played. Some People follow the rules of they're own game no matter what the cost is. Be aware something just pulls me to the ground about this even though ive been on both sides of it. Just not a good thing at all. 
where told as a community that these things are preventable and we are taught as children love doesn't necessarily hurt that bad. Physical and Mental abuse is probably the difference from a convict and the president. the ability to preserver is well about as possible as it is to jump from the free throw line. Its Not acceptable is what i say to myself, i live with that. the fact i've hit another woman in spite of whatever she did that was so wrong that i had to impose my strength on her. Its not the fact that most women are weaker than men i get that it should be a fair fight im no trying that what im saying here is when abuse is at the bottom line then something really needs to change in a relationship. i know i sound hopeless to a abused woman when i say i come in the name of love but quite honestly love is that potent i'd also question her ability to find it if she couldn't get the message of whatever i was trying to communicate and it took my hands too make her understand. 
Sometimes i guess you can say its a little different. Some people actually like this shit. fighting is at the tip of every tongue nowadays which also explains what kind of world we live in. folk are really that down. I once had a relationship where i was the victim for awhile till my manhood was at stake not saying if you were ever hit it is, but something about it just didn't really right and to my knowledge things are alot better now. the Cycle of abuse starts with a unsolved problem, usually a significant other or parent then goes to the mental sometimes its lies sometimes its taunting whatever the case may be its wrong and goes to rooftops of hitting kicking screaming and worst of all just fucks up the vibe for everyone. Lets chill lets relax. even after you've been hit what are the precautions of forgiving and forgetting ? i mean do you forgive and forget or one and not the other. Lets us know here at the shak I challenge you guys to find help and if you see it what exactly do you do is what i wanna know ..holla at me - SOuply
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